Charles Fourier’s Queer Theory

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In a decentralized world of plenty, there's nothing to
fight over, no point to empire. Sexual politics is a game
of sensual largess. Its currency is attraction, the point of the
game is to dispense and distribute the
favors of the favored.

Making Love and Sex with Strangers

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The challenge for so many loving and committed couples is in keeping desire, attraction, passion, and presence in their sex lives. A big part of the problem is that most people define "making love" simply as "sex with someone you love."

The Future of Love Salon

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NYers, come join us for talks on tantra and intimacy followed by a discussion moderated by Daniel Pinchbeck, and explore The Future of Love in all its facets, April 25.

Sex With A Lion and Other Initiations

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A lion materialized on top of me with his forelegs set upon my belly and his penis between my legs. The previous day I had become aware of my vagina as a sort of appendage to my spirit body. It felt perfectly real. I felt the Lion enter me and gently move around inside me. The smells of a flowery woman and a salty man filled the air around me. I was the Earth at the beginning of time.

My Vagina?!

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Dreams can play a fantastically transformative role in our lives. Amy weaved into George's dreams, teaching him to understand her point of view long before he even considered becoming her.

BDSM and Honoring the Feminine

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Submission is a means of becoming aware of one’s humanity, which brings one closer to the being within oneself — perhaps with some assistance from Mother Mary in high-heeled boots.

The Rule of I

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Abdellah Taia, Morocco's
first openly gay autobiographical writer, considers what it means to use the
first person in an Arabic culture. "How to be naked and
dignified, how to live our 'I' and be free?"

Intentional Sexuality: Possibilities and Perils

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An exploration of how "intentional sexuality" – or "sacred sexuality" – is used to reclaim the link between sexuality and spirituality, an ancient bond severed by the anti-carnal elements within early Christianity, Protestantism, and American Puritanism in its old and newer forms.

A Vote for Sexual Health

Which political party or candidate is more sexually healthy and promotes values consistent with sexual health?

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